FOR CHARACTER

            creating schools and communities for character!

November/December, 2003

An electronic newsletter to help you make sure CHARACTER COUNTS!sm

 

                                                                                                                        Gary Smit

 


CHARACTER COUNTS! and the Six Pillars of Character are service marks of the CHARACTER COUNTS! Coalition, a project of the Josephson Institute of Ethics.  For more information about training opportunities and resources available to assist schools and communities in the integration of a character education initiative, check out their web site at: www.charactercounts.org  or call them at 1-800-711-2670.

 

 

IN THIS ISSUE …

 

TAKE A MINUTE FOR CHARACTER

INFORMATION YOU CAN USE

LESSONS IN CHARACTER

WHAT ARE THE CHIEF CONCERNS ABOUT SCHOOLS TODAY?

BOOK REVIEWS

ROLES WE PLAY IN CHARACTER EDUCATION

THE POWER AND PROMISE OF EDUCATING FOR CHARACTER

COMMENTARY BY MICHAEL JOSEPHSON

 

TAKE A MINUTE FOR CHARACTER – Gary Smit

 

“Children may not listen to what you say, but they believe what you do.”  I share this quote as a core belief statement in many of my speeches when discussing our role as models for children. I find this to be true whether one interacts with children as a parent or an educator.  But I’ve also found we should not only look inward at ourselves when considering the role we play as a model for children. There is also a need to be concerned about what happens with children when they are outside of our direct influence. For example, when discussing modeling, someone will often ask about the role played by adults from the entertainment field, whether on the big screen, TV or in music.  There is agreement that what our children see and hear can play a significant role in their attitudes and actions.  What is observed, they will often do.

 

Let me share with you how powerful the adult influence from the entertainment field can be in the lives of children.  Bob Condor, a columnist for the Chicago Tribune, recently reported on the findings of a research study conducted by the Dartmouth Medical School. The study surveyed more than 2,600 10 –14 year-old students about the movies they had watched in their young lives.  What the researchers discovered is that kids who watch the most smoking scenes in movies are 2.7 times more likely to start a smoking habit within two years than children who watch the fewest smoking scenes.  Overall, 10 percent of the students in the survey started smoking regularly within two years of the study.  Fifty-two percent of kids who started smoking did so entirely based on seeing movie stars do so, the Dartmouth researchers reported.  They even discovered that students with non-smoking parents who watched a lot of tobacco-use scenes are four times more likely to start smoking than counterparts who watched the least number of smoking scenes.

 

What the researchers found was that many of the students could repeat verbatim not only whole scenes in movies but also “knew in a high level of detail who smoked and who didn’t.”  From the survey, the researchers at Dartmouth developed a working list of Hollywood movies that send harmful messages about tobacco.  Condor in his article, reported that Smoke Free Movies is a campaign and web site (www.smokefreemovies.ucsf.edu) founded by Stanton Glantz, a professor of medicine at the University of California at San Francisco.  His organization calls for an R rating to be placed on any movie with smoking scenes.  “Sixty percent of the total exposure to smoking in the study’s movies were in youth-oriented films,” said Glantz.

I’m not using the results of this study to bash those who smoke. What I would like to share is the challenge that we have in living a life in which children and young people capture attitudes, words and actions by what is observed in us as adults.  I think Robert Fulghum said it best, "Don't worry that children never listen to you. Worry that they are always watching you."

Gary Smit

 

INFORMATION YOU CAN USE

 

More young Americans know Ruben Studdard won the "American Idol" competition and that the Simpsons live in Springfield than know the party of their state's governor, a new report finds.  Citizenship: A Challenge for All Generations says 15 to 26-year-olds don't understand the ideals of citizenship, lack the knowledge necessary for effective self-government, and have limited appreciation of American democracy. Only 66 percent of respondents believe it is necessary to vote to be a good citizen, compared to 83 percent of those over 26.

 

·        STRING OF VIOLENT INCIDENTS PUZZLES EXPERTS - USA TODAY
The 2003-2004 school year is only a few weeks old, but a string of fatal shootings, stabbings and other attacks threatens to make it one of the deadliest in years. Since mid-August, when most students returned to class, the nation's public schools have seen 18 violent deaths, more than in either of the previous two years. And that does not include about 50 non-fatal incidents.

 

·        STUDENT WELL-BEING ESSENTIAL FOR ACADEMIC SUCCESS http://www.wested.org/cs/wew/view/rs_press/22

 

Research conducted by WestEd shows a strong connection between high school students' academic achievement and their overall health and well-being. A new report demonstrates "a significant relationship between secondary school standardized achievement scores and a variety of nonacademic factors." These factors include substance use, exposure to violence, exercise, nutrition, school climate, and safety. "Our longitudinal research reveals that schools with higher percentages of students who are less engaged in risky behaviors, more likely to eat nutritiously and exercise, and report caring relationships and high expectations at school made greater progress in raising test scores," write Thomas Hanson and Greg Austin. "This indicates that youth development and learning are complementary processes that must be addressed in concert to support student and school success."                   

 

·        BULLYING PREVENTION IS CRIME PREVENTION http://www.fightcrime.org/releases.php?id=65

 

A report from a national anti-crime organization shows that new anti-aggression programs can prevent up to half of all bullying which now affects one out of three children in grades six to ten and can lead to violent crime and death. The report shows: that for children in sixth through tenth grade, nearly one in six -- 3.2 million -- are victims of bullying each year. An additional 3.7 million bully other children. Kids who are bullied are five times more likely to be depressed than other kids, and also far more likely to be suicidal. Bullies are much more likely than other kids to carry a weapon to school. One expert commented that, "Bullying is a ticking time bomb in our schools and our society…America needs to defuse this problem before more children are harmed, killed or take their own lives."

 

·        THE POWER OF VOICE IN SCHOOLS http://www.ascd.org/publications/class_lead/200310/aust_2.html

When adults in a school trust and value what students have to say, plenty is said. Students become willing to risk trying out new ideas and to share alternate points of view, and they revel in their individuality. Giving students voice means providing venues where students' opinions can actually have an impact on the school, making a real difference in how students grow and learn. In democratic schools, where shared power and shared decision making are the norm, you will find: underpinnings of respect; opportunities for every voice to be heard; opportunities to share responsibility in appropriate areas; ample opportunity for choice; opportunities for facilitation skills to be learned and practiced; and an atmosphere of non-judgment and neutrality.  In this article, the authors share suggestions for creating school structures that support democratic education.

 

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LESSONS IN CHARACTER  - CURRICULUM REVIEW

 Young People's Press, 1731 Kettner Blvd., San Diego, CA 92101; phone 800.231.9774.

 

I’m often asked about curriculum materials that can be used by a classroom teacher in the integration of the “Six Pillars of Character.”  An excellent resource is from Young People’s Press – Lessons in Character.  Here is a review of the material that I hope you’ll find helpful.

Summary

 

Lessons in Character and the accompanying Books of Responsibility provide systematic character education in an exceptionally well developed and attractive K-6 series. The “Six Pillars of Character" are clearly presented along with interesting stories from many cultures that demonstrate the meaning and relevance of the six principles. An additional component is the STAR approach to problem-solving (stop, think, act, and review). This is primarily a literature based program, but also includes geography, social studies, and school-to-work units.

 

Content

 

The materials are based on the “Six Pillars of Character.” The lessons and activities reinforce the six values in kindergarten through sixth grade with the use of folktales, geography lessons, and biographies. The emphasis of the curricula is on global citizenship and developing responsibility and respect to self and others. An exciting narrative style engages interest.  Social responsibility, including cooperation, conflict resolution and community service, are strongly emphasized.

 

Instructional Issues

 

Lessons in Character and Books of Responsibility include questions and suggestions for higher level thinking in each grade level. The Teacher's Management Guides and Teacher's Editions have sections entitled Critical Thinking, Discussion, and Analysis. Cooperative Learning and Active Learning Sections involve pairs, groups, family, and community. Materials are available in English and Spanish.

 

Teacher Support

 

Teacher manuals and support materials are very clear and very well organized. They are easy to use and include summaries.  The core elements of character are the focus of teacher materials and are closely correlated with the student materials.  An Administrator's Guide presents sample letters to parents with ways of integrating the core values into the life of the child at home. It also provides recommendations for integrating the Lessons In Character curriculum throughout the entire school (e.g., daily announcements, discipline, and school-wide activities.)

 

Assessment

 

Lessons in Character materials include a variety of informal assessments included in each lesson. There are "Thinking" and "Doing" assignments which challenge students to demonstrate understanding of the core values and to think critically about the implications of the stories. There are also "Class Projects" such as creating a poster related to a theme (e.g., Be an Excellent Worker.) Students are also encouraged to engage in self evaluation. 

 

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WHAT ARE THE CHIEF CONCERNS ABOUT SCHOOLS TODAY?

Public Opinion Stresses Need for an Emphasis on “More than Just Test Scores”

 

McREL (Mid-continent Research for Education and Learning ) recently convened focus groups to probe the public’s views on standards-based education. One of the four key themes to emerge was that “the biggest problems with public schools have little to do with standards or academics.” The report states, “In every focus group, people’s chief concerns about schools were generally about non-academic issues such as safety, discipline, character, and values. Parents were far more worried about ‘chaos on the playgrounds,’ bullying, or a general ‘lack of control’ in public schools, than test results.” The study’s key findings included:

 

·        Standards are meaningless without tests, but accountability should be based on more than just test scores.

·        True accountability makes schools more responsive to parents and communities not to outside officials.

·        Parents and students are a crucial yet often missing part of most accountability systems.  

·        The biggest problems with public schools have little to do with standards or academics.

 

The full report is available at:
http://www.mcrel.org/PDF/Standards/5032IR_IssuesBrief0703_DiggingDeeper.pdf/

 

BOOK REVIEWS

 

Schools with Spirit : Nurturing the Inner Lives of Children and Teachers
by Linda Lantieri (Editor)

In Schools with Spirit, fourteen respected educators ask whether schools can nurture the inner life of students without violating the beliefs of families or the separation of church and state. For anyone who is concerned for the inner lives of our children, Schools with Spirit inspires, through
deeply moving stories, about everything from the first tentative steps toward fostering emotional growth in our children to the bold movement of welcoming the spiritual dimension in our schools.

Rules in School
by Kathryn Brady, Mary Beth Forton, Deborah Porter, and Chip Wood
Maurice Elias, describes this as "a marvelous, clear, readable book, filled with specific instructions and examples, about how to set up a democratic yet self-disciplined classroom environment." The way we set up rule structures in our schools and classrooms, he continues, speaks volumes to students about our view of them. This book details how to introduce rules and how to help students set goals for themselves for learning. Maurice writes, "I recommend this very strongly, especially to beginning educators but to anyone who is finding that they are not satisfied with the interactions, structure, and relationships of classroom life."

Emotional Intelligence: Why it can matter more than IQ
by Daniel Goleman Bantam Books
This number one bestseller in 1995 is essential reading and has tremendous implications for the way we view education! From the back cover: "Drawing on groundbreaking brain and behavioral research, Goleman shows the factors at work when people of high IQ flounder and those of modest IQ do surprisingly well. These factors, which include self-awareness, self-discipline, and empathy, add up to a different way of being smart - one he terms "emotional intelligence." While childhood is a critical time for its development, emotional intelligence is not fixed at birth. It can
be nurtured and strengthened throughout adulthood."

And if you're a parent:

Emotionally Intelligent Parenting: How to Raise a Self-Disciplined, Responsible, Socially Skilled Child
by Maurice J. Elias, Ph.D., Steven E. Tobias, Psy.D., and Brian S. Friedlander, Ph.D.
Harmony Books
With this book, parents will learn how to communicate with children on a deeper, more gratifying level and how to help them successfully navigate the intricacies of relating to others.

 

WHAT ROLES DO WE PLAY IN CHARACTER EDUCATION

 

Role of the Teacher:

 

Role of the Student:

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THE POWER AND PROMISE OF EDUCATING FOR CHARACTER

By Deb Austin Brown.

A colleague recently shared a great book with me entitled,  "Lessons From The Rocking Chair:
Timeless Stories for Teaching Character.”  The author, Deb Austin Brown has summarized key principles that I believe are important for us when considering the power and promise that character education brings to our classrooms, schools and communities.

 

The Power of One! Never underestimate the power of one caring adult in the life of a child. That caring and interest carries a child a long way in developing a life of character. One year with a teacher of character can act as a catalyst for change in the life of any student. Remember, in our soaring technological lives, the most important element in teaching is still the human element. And just as one caring teacher can influence the life of a child, so can one teacher who is committed to the character message, influence the direction of a school!

 

The Power of Potential! Using the traits of good character as the focus for all you do, help your students establish good attitudes, habits, and work ethic that will contribute to the development of his true potential. I believe that there is greatness in all children. A foundation of good character habits will transcend the classroom to every area of a child’s life. What a wonderful thing it is when a child’s good work ethic becomes his good life ethic!

 

The Power of Wisdom! I was raised on wisdom, and I still remember the stories and lessons that were part of my own childhood. Each day in the classroom I have my students repeat little axioms of wisdom such as: "Don’t do what’s easy, do what’s right!" We repeat them when we are lining up for recess, when we are washing our hands for lunch, and when we are packing our bookbags at the end of the school day. These character-building moments take no time out of our daily schedules, yet are powerful ways of helping students internalize the message.

By repeating the wisdom five or six times each day, 180 days each school year, my young students commit the messages to memory. The repetition of these lessons gives them a moral rope to hang on to during the decision-times of childhood... and beyond!

 

The Power of Metaphors! The use of metaphors is powerful in helping children to understand real-life character messages. One of my favorites illustrates the working of a good conscience: Your conscience is like a little triangle in your heart. When you do bad things, the triangle rotates and the corners hurt you a lot. After many bad decisions, the corners have worn off. When the triangles turns, it doesn’t hurt anymore. Children can see the power of that little triangle poking them back to the reality of their actions…and the devastating results when the warnings are ignored!

 

The Power of Feeling! There is nothing so powerful in reinforcing good character as that feeling you get in your heart from doing the right thing! Once a student experiences the feeling, you know that the message has been internalized. This newly-found intrinsic motivation helps the child go beyond learning the character message... to actually living it!

 

 

COMMENTARY BY MICHAEL JOSEPHSON

 

WHAT WILL MATTER

Ready or not, some day it will all come to an end.

There will be no more sunrises, no minutes, hours or days. All the things you collected, whether treasured or forgotten, will pass to someone else. Your wealth, fame and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance. It will not matter what you owned or what you were owed. Your grudges, resentments, frustrations and jealousies will finally disappear. So too, your hopes, ambitions, plans and to-do lists will expire. The wins and losses that once seemed so important will fade away. It won't matter where you came from or what side of the tracks you lived on at the end. It won't matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant. Even your gender and skin color will be irrelevant.

So what will matter? How will the value of your days be measured?

What will matter is not what you bought, but what you built; not what you got, but what you gave. What will matter is not your success, but your significance. What will matter is not what you learned, but what you taught. What will matter is every act of integrity, compassion, courage or sacrifice that enriched, empowered or encouraged others to emulate your example.
What will matter is not your competence, but your character. What will matter is not how many people you knew, but how many will feel a lasting loss when you're gone. What will matter is not your memories, but the memories that live in those who loved you. What will matter is how long you will be remembered, by whom and for what.

Living a life that matters doesn't happen by accident. It's not a matter of circumstance but of choice. Choose to live a life that matters.

This is Michael Josephson reminding you that character counts.

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